Shirley Porter|Dame Shirley Porter

It feels utterly impossible to write this, to put into words the enormity of losing Shirley. She wasn’t just a politician, or a Dame, or the formidable leader of Westminster City Council – she was, quite simply, the most wonderfully, stubbornly, brilliantly *Shirley* person I’ve ever known. I remember when I first met her, probably around 1985, I was a nervous young researcher, completely intimidated by her reputation. But she immediately put me at ease with a mischievous twinkle in her eye and a perfectly timed, slightly dry joke. She had this incredible ability to make everyone around her feel seen, valued, and, let’s be honest, slightly challenged to be better. She wasn’t afraid to tell you exactly what she thought, and she did it with a warmth and genuine care that was utterly disarming. Shirley’s life was a whirlwind of activity, fuelled by an unwavering dedication to her city and a deep-seated belief in what was right. Growing up as the daughter of Sir Jack Cohen, the Tesco founder, certainly shaped her, giving her a practical, no-nonsense approach to everything – but it never diminished her empathy or her passion for the people of Westminster. She poured her heart and soul into transforming the council, tackling issues head-on, and always, always fighting for the underdog. I’ll never forget her insistence on a proper cup of tea after a particularly grueling council meeting – it was a ritual, a moment of calm amidst the chaos, and a testament to her belief in the importance of simple pleasures. And let’s not forget her love of gardening; her tiny balcony overflowing with vibrant flowers was a constant source of joy and a reflection of her own colourful spirit. Beyond her political achievements, Shirley was a devoted wife to David, a loving mother to [mention children’s names if appropriate, otherwise say ‘her children’], and a cherished grandmother. She adored her family fiercely and found immense happiness in their company. She had a remarkable ability to connect with people from all walks of life, and I know countless individuals across Westminster benefited from her guidance, her support, and her unwavering belief in their potential. She leaves behind a legacy of public service, but more importantly, a legacy of kindness, strength, and a truly unforgettable spirit. Shirley, you were a force of nature, a brilliant mind, and a truly exceptional woman. We will miss your sharp wit, your unwavering determination, and your enormous, generous heart more than words can say. Rest in peace, my dear.